A CUP OF HOPE, it’s time to serve you another one... A New Beginning In Life

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To life, set backs are as common as the mistakes that we make. Time and again it happens that we come across some or the mistake that we made and same holds true for the setbacks that we receive. Both are evitable if we make sure that we are doing things the right way. Now, coming face to face with reality, is it really possible to do everything with perfection? The answer will be no. Most a person can do is to avoid making mistakes when he knows something he is doing is wrong, but as far as setbacks are concerned, they are mostly inevitable. It can take any form whether a break-up or a failure in exam or a business loss but the truth is, everybody has to go through it.

What are setbacks? People will describe it differently based on their own experiences with mistakes and failures. In my opinion, setback is the result of past mistakes with a touch of destiny.

Behind every setback, there are two things-

1. Our past mistakes, and
2. Destiny

The first is under our total control whereas the second is totally beyond our control. The question now arises that what can probably be done to avoid them? And the answer would be nothing. Although we have 50% control over it but the other 50% still lies in the hands of destiny. So is it a fair thing to do to get heartbroken over something that is beyond our control? It might seem perfect and absolutely right in the given situation but is it really helpful? Think practically for once and you will see no solution in your chosen course of action.

Having proved your course of action wrong (no offense), it is also necessary to suggest a better course of action. If not going by instinct and getting depressed, we can chose to chalk out future plans. It is a well established fact that there is no point crying over spilt milk. A mere loophole cannot stop the life. Life has its own course and it goes on, now it is up to you how you live it- In depression or in hopes. I’m sure the second option will keep you in high spirits and will fill you up with a lot of positivity.

Reading this much most of the people will blame it on destiny. Then let me remind you destiny alone can never be responsible for your situation. It has to be a combination of destiny and mistakes. So, we are as much to be blamed for the situation as much the destiny. We can say that the correct thing to do would neither to get depressed nor to forget the fact that we were wrong in the past. All we need to do is not to repeat mistakes of our past and put a big question mark on our future.

When we face a setback, the biggest question that then arises is how to make things normal again? The answer is work for it. Work hard and avoid the mistakes of the past. Do your 50% perfectly and then leave the remaining 50% on destiny. It is said that God helps those who help themselves, so just give your 100% and then leave the remaining to destiny.  God will do what is best for you.


Planning is most important when it comes to work. A planned approach not only makes work easier but also yields better result. So always plan before you start off. This approach works in all forms of life but since most of the readers are expected to be students, I will focus on studies. Failure is an inevitable part of professional examinations. They not only test the mettle of a future professional but also contribute to the learning of a future professional. So they are nothing to be depressed about, instead learn from your mistakes, chalk out a regular and an efficient study regime and most importantly follow it.

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